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October 4, 2023

Am I Polyamorous Quiz

Kristie Plantinga
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October 4, 2023
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Are you curious about the dynamics of polyamory and wondering if it might be the right relationship style for you? Polyamory is a relationship orientation that embraces the idea of loving multiple people simultaneously, with open and honest communication at its core. This quiz is designed to help you explore your feelings, desires, and beliefs when it comes to love and relationships.

So, grab a pen and paper or open a notes app, because by the end of this quiz, you'll have a better understanding of whether polyamory aligns with your personal preferences and values. Let's dive in and discover more about your romantic inclinations!

Friendly reminder: this quiz isn’t intended to make assumptions or judgments about another person’s background, personality, or mental health. In other words, we can’t armchair diagnose you with anything. Our goal is to give you this tool to better understand your current situation and the opportunity to seek help if you want it.

Who is this quiz for?

This quiz is designed for people who want to know if they are polyamorous and assess if they want to explore these types of relationships.

How accurate is this quiz?

At Best Therapists, we believe that online mental health quizzes can be an excellent first step towards improving our mental health. Quizzes like this one can educate you and provide opportunities for self-reflection, but note that they are not a substitute for professional assessments and diagnoses.

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Frequently asked questions

How rare are polyamorous relationships?

According to information from Indiana University, 1 in 9 people have been involved in a polyamorous relationship.

Can anyone be polyamorous, or is it only for certain people?

Polyamory is a relationship orientation that's open to anyone who feels it aligns with their values and desires, but it's not a one-size-fits-all approach and may not be suitable for everyone. It requires strong communication, consent, and a willingness to navigate complex emotions, so individuals should carefully consider whether it's right for them and their potential partners.

What is polyamory, and how does it differ from monogamy?

Polyamory is a relationship orientation that involves having romantic or intimate connections with multiple people simultaneously, with the knowledge and consent of all involved parties, and emphasizes open and honest communication. In contrast, monogamy is a traditional relationship style where individuals exclusively commit to one partner at a time, typically focusing on a single romantic or sexual relationship.

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Kristie Plantinga

Kristie Plantinga is the founder of Best Therapists. Along with being on the client-side of therapy, Kristie has had the honor of working directly with therapists in her marketing agency for therapists, TherapieSEO. While working alongside therapists, she learned about the inequities in our mental health system that therapists face on a daily basis, and she wanted to do something about it. That’s why Best Therapists is a platform designed to benefit not only therapy-seekers, but therapy providers. Kristie has a Masters degree in Written Communication and a Bachelors degree in Psychology and Music.

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Katelyn McMahon
Registered Psychotherapist, VT #097.0134200

Katelyn is a therapist-turned-writer with a passion for mental health. She has a Master's degree in Social Work from the University of England and is a Registered Psychotherapist in the state of Vermont. Katelyn has professional experience in aging care, addiction treatment, integrated health care, and private practice settings. She also has lived experience being on the client side of therapy. Currently, Katelyn is a content writer who’s passionate about spreading mental health awareness and helping other therapists and therapy-seekers Do The Work.

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