Kansas, LCPC 2697; Missouri, LPC 2018043701; Idaho, LPC 6071667; Vermont, LCMHC 068.0136624TELE; Florida, LMHC TPMC6280
Melanie Collins

License:

LCPC
Female
White
Virtual Only
Specialties
Sex therapy, Trauma, Neurodivergence
Education
Masters in Professional Counseling | Ottawa University, 2016
About
Melanie Collins provides therapy and coaching for individuals and couples seeking deeper self-awareness, healthier relationships, and meaningful personal growth. Her practice is kink-informed, sex-positive, trauma-aware, and neurodivergent-friendly, offering a safe, judgment-free space for exploration, healing, and transformation. Services include: Individual & Couples Therapy: Strengthening emotional connection, communication, and resilience Kink-Affirming & Sex Therapy: Support for BDSM, ENM, and alternative relationship structures Hypnotherapy for Change: Rewiring subconscious patterns and limiting beliefs Perimenopause & Menopause Support: Guidance through emotional and identity transitions Boundaries & Self-Advocacy Coaching: Building confidence in personal limits and voice Group Support & Workshops: Community-based opportunities for learning and connection Melanie specializes in working with: Members of the kink, BDSM, and ENM communities Neurodivergent adults, especially late-diagnosed women High-achieving professionals and entrepreneurs Individuals navigating perimenopause and menopause Survivors healing from toxic or high-control relationships Through a collaborative and compassionate approach, Melanie helps clients reconnect with their authentic selves and create lives that reflect their values, needs, and desires.
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Message to clients
If you’ve ever felt like you were “too much,” “not enough,” or just plain misunderstood—you’re in the right place. I work with individuals and couples who are ready to explore their inner world with curiosity instead of shame. Whether you're navigating identity shifts, relationship challenges, or the weight of unspoken trauma, you don’t have to do it alone. This space is designed for those who think deeply, feel intensely, and crave real connection—especially if you're part of the kink, BDSM, or ENM community, late-diagnosed neurodivergent, healing from toxic relationships, or facing the emotional transitions of midlife. You deserve a therapist who gets it. My approach is sex-positive, trauma-aware, and deeply respectful of your autonomy. I’m not here to “fix” you—I’m here to walk beside you as you reclaim your voice, your desires, and your sense of self. Together, we’ll untangle the stories that no longer serve you and build a foundation rooted in authenticity, agency, and emotional safety. You are not broken. You’re becoming. If that speaks to something inside you, let’s talk.
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Race and ethnicity
White
Cultural and experiential knowledge
White culture
Languages spoken
English
Spiritual knowledge
Christianity, Catholicism, Mormonism, Wiccan/Paganism, Non-religious (Agnosticism, Atheism, Secular)
Location
Specialties
Sex therapy, Trauma, Neurodivergence
Additional areas of focus
Abuse, Couples counseling, Polyamorous/non-monogamous couples counseling, Existential questioning, LBGTQ+ sexuality, Life transitions, Midlife stress, Mindfulness and/or meditation, Neurodivergence, Polyamory/non-monogamy, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), Self esteem/self worth, Sex therapy, Trauma
Therapeutic style
Conversational, Direct, Humorous, Calming, Laid back
Modalities
Attachment based, Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), Hypnotherapy, Internal family systems (IFS), Mindfulness based, Strengths-based therapy, Trauma-focused
Cost
$150
/Individual Session
$175
/Couples Session
/Family Session
Sliding scale
Offers sliding scale spots
Insurance accepted
Does not provide superbills for out-of-network-benefits
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Megan Buchholz, LPC
Melanie is a very compassionate therapist, who actively listens and validates her clients. She is very competent in the kink community and I feel confident sending any clients her way who need this type of counseling services.
Linda Degner, LIMHP
Melanie is a great choice for a therapist for those seeking a direct, no-nonsense approach with an honest and compassionate foundation. She does not shy away from difficult or uncomfortable topics while providing an open and also professional environment.
Rebecca Pappas, LPC
Melanie is a wonderful resource for referrals and has always provided a professional space to consult any concerns. She has been a wealth of information and resources as a fellow therapist. Melanie shows a thorough understanding of the human experience and I have always experienced non judgment when interacting with her.
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