Meet Melissa Willard—Therapist at Best Therapists

Melissa Willard, LMFT 93335 is a licensed marriage and family therapist based in California, specializing in narcissistic abuse recovery and complex relationship trauma. With a deep understanding of the emotional toll that narcissistic dynamics can have on individuals, Melissa provides compassionate, trauma-informed care to those seeking to heal from emotionally abusive relationships and reclaim their sense of self. Melissa holds a Master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from the University of Phoenix 2011 and has extensive experience working with adults navigating the lasting effects of psychological and relational trauma. Her approach is grounded in empathy, clinical expertise, and a strong commitment to helping clients break free from toxic patterns. Formally trained in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Melissa integrates mindfulness, emotional regulation, and boundary-setting techniques into her work, helping clients build resilience and stability as they move through the healing process. She also incorporates parts work, inner child healing, and somatic strategies to address trauma at both the emotional and nervous system levels. In addition to weekly therapy, Melissa offers therapy intensives for those seeking more focused and accelerated support. These extended sessions are designed to help clients dive deeper into their healing journey in a safe and structured space. Melissa provides virtual therapy exclusively to residents of California. She is known for creating a warm, validating environment where clients feel seen, heard, and empowered to move forward.

If you’ve been impacted by narcissistic abuse or toxic relationship dynamics, you may be feeling emotionally drained, confused, or disconnected from yourself. You might be stuck in cycles of self-doubt, guilt, or anxiety—wondering how to move forward and start feeling like yourself again. Please know: you are not alone, and healing is possible. I specialize in helping adult individuals heal from narcissistic abuse, complex relationship trauma, and emotional manipulation. My approach is trauma-informed, compassionate, and tailored to help you rebuild your identity, regain emotional safety, and reconnect with your inner strength. I’m formally trained in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) and integrate mindfulness, nervous system regulation, boundary-setting, and inner child work into sessions. In addition to weekly therapy, I offer therapy intensives for clients who are ready to dive deeper into healing with more focused, accelerated support. I offer virtual therapy exclusively to residents of California, creating a safe and supportive space where you can feel heard and truly understood. My goal is to provide a validating and nonjudgmental environment where you feel empowered and supported every step of the way. Whether you’re newly out of an abusive relationship or have been trying to heal for years, I’m here to help you reclaim your voice, your peace, and your life.

Masters in Marriage, Family and Child Counseling | University of Phoenix, 2011